expectation

Do you ever expect of something?? i always expect. emm..is it something good... or something bad le??

if i am invited for a party or event, i will expect something which i think should have in the party...
when i am taking photos...i expect to get good results...
when i am going for a horror movie, i expect to get shock with the movie...
when.......i expect.....
em, i think i expect quite a lots in my life--from everything that i go through or happen...
according to my understanding, expectation in things are something good. because, it helps us to put more efforts on something....but on the other hand, it does bring something bad.

what i remember was, year(s) ago , there is a movie - Prirates of the Caribbean. it was a famous movie that time. friends around me went to watch this movie when it has just been published. then, i was influenced by their comments...i started to have really high expectation in the movie. mana tau---after i watched it..i am like..UHH? honestly speaking, i not enjoy at all. i even dint get the storyline of the movie. dun ask me why and how this happen. but, really,my sis and i was..............
not to offense Prirates of the Caribbean's fanss, maybe..it's just not my type of movie...or, i just have tooo high expectation on it.. ya... ;)

then,another experience...i expect to have something good in a gathering. i dressed up....sang while driving......smiled to the guard.....o,yea..i'm really excited about the gathering. just..sigh....the gathering was really......bad.
everyone seems being forced to attend the gathering. most of them were not in good mood. so,i think we spent more than 1 hour 'chat with the lungs'
heheheee

em,so expectations is bad!!!?!!! i think not ler. is depends how you position your expectation..
for works, is good that we have expectations where we can put more efforts into it and achieve something good. but, too high or too much expectation will just stress ourselves..
again, dun have a clear conclusion for it. but things always have the pros and cons side of it ler. just make sure dun overdo a thing, then it will be fine.

so,i think, we just shouldnt expect so much la.
maybe....
dun expect so much about the movie before you go in the cinema...
dun expect to have a nice chat with friends and end up with nothing.....
dun expect to have a nice date before you going to the date...
dun expect to have nice anbd clear photos before you get the develop pictures...
there are too many not to expect ler.
in short, dun think too much lo. haha!~

by so....we will realised that life are full with surprises oo~~
anyhow..smile always~~
;D