the s o r r y

when i was in car. i heard ta jie said smtg..not really remember,but i will try my best! *wink!~ when 2 friends together,together as in maybe live together,go out together n........
then,there will sure be times where both of you will argues or angry about each others. when this happen...what should we do ler??
-two of us will just bang the door and show downcast face
-we'll 'cold war' for few days or weeks *err,call cold war ar? like stop talking or going out with each other ler....*
or?
there might be many ways... but,most important is know to say sorry. many people find that saying sorry is difficult,as they might think that " he's the one that are wrong,why should i say sorry?" , or "no,unless he appologize first!!"
i have to admit,i always think that way,when i am angry with someone..i wont be the one who step out. but,in the incident,there wont be any side where he 100% correct,you know? there might be 2%, 5% or few % that you are wrong when you stand on your view site. see from a different angle,which means you are wrong as well...right? so,why cant you be the one that appologize?
err,get what i mean? when i hear of these, i feel there are someone knocking my head. coz,there are just so true. there wont be someone that 100% correct,i think. so,it's just can you step out you feet to walk to the person... a "sorry" is not difficult to say. some might think, "it's not becoz of the 'sorry', but is about principle.."
err...?
maybe,think other way--if this 'sorry' can rescue the relationship among both of you, or this 'sorry' will help in settle the problem...then it's worth! rite?
wow,seems talking something 'deep' ler...hehee...
anyway...just wanna say
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gastric now...cham!
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